She was Working…

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Culture, Politics

A classic story of He Said, She Said, with a twist. A Slashdot user, Guy Montag, was recently featured in an article about the dating site ConservativeMatch.com in The New Republic. Apparently, the young Eve Fairbanks was assigned to go on dates with men she met via ConservativeMatch and then told to write stories about them. His experiences on the date and responses to the article can be read here. The article he is responding to is reproduced in its entirety here. (Strange coincidences: The blog where the article is reproduced is made by the same designer as the one I’m using — No wonder it seemed kind of familiar.)

To be fair, I didn’t have a heck of a lot of problems with Fairbanks’ article: It seems like she did a bit of exaggeration in the name of either writing a more interesting article or appealing to political stereotypes, but on the whole she seems pleasantly surprised by her experiences. Guy seems to take issue with a lot of minor things, but at the same time I can’t really blame him — If it were my character being misrepresented by some deceitful journalist I’m sure I’d take them to task on every piddling little error as well.

The main issue is simply this:

A subversive note or two of liberalism is a feature of many profiles on ConservativeMatch–and of everyone I went on dates with. Shooter told me he drives a hybrid car. One poster does yoga..The edge of guilty-pleasure liberalism in people’s profiles creates an interesting tension on ConservativeMatch… Some of these betrayals are not so benign.

The tone she creates here, intentionally or unintentionally, is one in which her political adversaries are presented, as Guy himself insinuates in later commentary, as “Gorillas in the Mist.” Guilty-pleasure liberalism? Betrayals? This really tells us more about Eve’s own internal caricatures and cliquish perception of politics than it does anything else. Personally, I’d worry if I knew anyone who took having different political ideas as being a betrayal.

12 Responses

  1. another interviewee saying Eve Fairbanks made stuff up about him:

    http://brothercyst.blogspot.com/2006/04/nostalgia.html

    (via Realclearpolitics blog)

  2. Thanks, an interesting read and certainly looks to reflect badly on her career, or at least what I know of it.

  3. Nice post and you pretty much hit the biggest points.

    When “Mr. Right” posted, I must admit that I was laughing too hard at Eve’s saying that I said I drove a hybrid that it masked the real issue from me: the ethics of faking fabricating the reason for a meeting to make an interview. Also, the issue with not telling the subjects of a story that they will be part of a story.

    I finally wrote a “fisking” of the portions of the article that I was in:
    http://slashdot.org/~GMontag/journal/139505
    May or may not be easier to read.

    To be fair, one of the others says his experience was good and he has no problem with this style of ‘interview’ as long as the person who you are out with tells you who they work for. My take is here:
    http://slashdot.org/~GMontag/journal/139561

    His take is here (also linked in my journal entry):
    http://calledasseen.blogspot.com/2006/07/unfair-comparison.html

    Montag

  4. Sorry for this tag-along post.

    Another item that is probably affecting my reaction is the age difference between Eve Fairbanks and myself.

  5. Guy –

    How so? Are you suggesting that what she’s done (used your and her personal life as fodder for her career) is a generational issue, or is it something else?

  6. Cineris,

    I have no idea what her motovation was to write like Stephen Glass as edited by Paris Hilton. Her other writing does not sound like this “article” at all, but, as noted here, others experienced her writing before she had editors, with similar results.

    I was about to go home and start posting her Examiner articles to my /. journal when I read the e-mail about her purpose for meeting people on the match site. Glad I waited a week longer than my first thought of that.

    My comment about the age difference was mearely a comment about my personal reactions to these events. Perhaps it was not that clear in my other writings, but it is quite rare for me to have an interest in women younger than me at all, much less than half of my age. The emotional amplifiers, if you will, are that I was very impressed with her and truly liked her a lot. Only date in quite a while who I truly wanted to see again.

    As in the very long JE that you link to, I was sorely disappointed that she could not properly cancel/postpone a date, so I gave up. Only to find out later that she was just doing an article and the “date” , along with all of the followup, was just nonsense for an article.

    Anyway, if the above does not make sense: I was “bowled-over” by a woman my son’s age, who I would never think twice about if we just met casually and it turned out to be nothing but an article.

    E-mail me for clairification if needed.

    I do like your ‘blog, might be visiting more.

    Montag

  7. If you think that paragraph from Eve showed oddness, look at this:

    http://toryanarchist.wordpress.com/2006/06/25/do-militarists-and-prudes-mix/

  8. Another thought on your point. If she really wanted to do a story about hypocritical “social Conservatives”, she could have stayed in her Church. Check google Images for Eve Fairbanks.

  9. Guy,

    Understood about the age issue. Rare enough to find someone you’re interested in, especially being so much younger than you, but to find out she was deceitful… I can definitely see how that’d be an emotional gut-wrencher.

    Planning on some further commentary on the issue later today if I can get around to it.

  10. Cineris,

    Whew! Glad I finally expplained what I was thinking properly.

    The issue I really thing needs to be hammered home is why did Eve Faribanks have to venture past the St Paul’s Episcopal Church, Rock Creek Parish to find social Conservatives to write about in a snotty manner.

    Does not sound like she even looked for a social Conservative for this story, especially since she picke me as her first “date”.

  11. The Washington Post has a comment on this too. Check my journal or Howard Kurtz column.

    Eve Fairbanks’ quote:
    Fairbanks says she’s “befuddled” by his response. “I was writing a light piece, and I actually think he comes off pretty well. I went to great lengths to totally obscure his identity. It seems to me to be a pretty old and major tradition in journalism to go undercover.”

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